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At the day and time appointed for Solemnization
of Matrimony, the Persons to be married shall come into
the body of the Church, or shall be ready in some proper
house, with their friends and neighbors; and there standing
together, the Man on the right hand, and the Woman on the
left, the Minister shall say,
DEARLY beloved, we are gathered together
here in the sight of God, and in the face of this company,
to join together this Man and this Woman in holy Matrimony;
which is an honourable estate, instituted of God, signifying
unto us the mystical union that is betwixt Christ and his
Church: which holy estate Christ adorned and beautified
with his presence and first miracle that he wrought in Cana
of Galilee, and is commended of Saint Paul to be honourable
among all men: and therefore is not by any to be entered
into unadvisedly or lightly; but reverently, discreetly,
advisedly, soberly, and in the fear of God. Into this holy
estate these two persons present come now to be joined.
If any man can show just cause, why they may not lawfully
be joined together, let him now speak, or else hereafter
for ever hold his peace.
And also speaking unto the Persons who
are to be married, he shall say,
I REQUIRE and charge you both, as ye
will answer at the dreadful day of judgment when the secrets
of all hearts shall be disclosed, that if either of you
know any impediment, why ye may not be lawfully joined together
in Matrimony, ye do now confess it. For be ye well assured,
that if any persons are joined together other than as God's
Word doth allow, their marriage is not lawful.
The Minister, if he shall have reason
to doubt of the lawfulness of the proposed Marriage, may
demand sufficient surety for his indemnification: but if
no impediment shall be alleged, or suspected, the Minster
shall say to the Man,
JOHN Wilt thou have this Woman to thy
wedded wife, to live together after God's ordinance in the
holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou love her, comfort her,
honour, and keep her in sickness and in health; and, forsaking
all others, keep thee only unto her, so long as ye both
shall live?
The Man shall answer,
I will.
Then shall the Minster say unto the Woman,
JANE Wilt thou have this Man to thy wedded
husband, to live together after God's ordinance in the holy
estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou love him, comfort him, honour,
and keep him in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all
others, keep thee only unto him, so long as ye both shall
live?
The Woman shall answer,
I will.
Then shall the Minister say,
Who giveth this Woman to be married to
this Man?
Then shall they give their troth to each
other in this manner. The Minister, receiving the Woman
at her father's or friend's hands, shall cause the Man with
his right hand to take the Woman by her right hand, and
to say after him as followeth.
I John take thee Jane to my wedded Wife,
to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for
worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according
to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I plight thee my troth.
Then shall they loose their hands; and
the Woman with her right hand taking the Man by his right
hand, shall likewise say after the Minister,
I Jane take thee John to my wedded Husband,
to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for
worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according
to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I give thee my troth.
Then shall they again loose their hands;
and the Man shall give unto the Woman a Ring in this wise:
the Minister taking the ring shall deliver it unto the Man,
to put it upon the fourth finger of the Woman's left hand.
And the Man holding the Ring there, and taught by the Minister,
shall say,
WITH this Ring I thee wed: In the Name
of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.
And, before delivering the Ring to the
Man, the Minister may say as followeth,
BLESS, O Lord, this Ring, that he who
gives it and she who wears it may abide in thy peace, and
continue in they favour, unto their life's end; through
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Then, the Man, leaving the Ring upon
the fourth finger of the Woman's left hand, the Minister
shall say,
Let us pray.
Then shall the Minister and People, still
standing, say the Lord's Prayer.
OUR Father, who art in heaven, Hallowed
be thy Name. Thy Kingdom come. Thy will be done, On Earth
as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And
forgive us our trespasses, As we forgive those who trespass
against us. And lead us not into temptation, But deliver
us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and
the glory, for ever and ever. Amen.
Then shall the Minister add,
O ETERNAL God, Creator and Preserver
of all mankind, Giver of all spiritual grace, the Author
of everlasting life; Send thy blessing upon these thy servants,
this Man and this Woman, whom we bless in thy Name; that
they, living faithfully together, may surely perform and
keep the vow and covenant betwixt them made, (whereof this
Ring given and received is a token and pledge,) and may
ever remain in perfect love and peace together, and live
according to thy laws; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Then the Minister may add,
O GOD, who hast so consecrated the state
of Matrimony that in it is rep resented the spiritual marriage
and unity betwixt Christ and his Church; Look mercifully
upon these thy servants, that they may love, honour, and
cherish each other, and so live together in faithfulness
and patience, in wisdom and true godliness, that their home
may be a haven of blessing and of peace; through the same
Jesus Christ our Lord, who liveth and reigneth with thee
and the Holy Spirit ever, one God, world without end. Amen.
Then shall the Minister join their right
hands together, and say,
Those whom God hath joined together let
no man put asunder.
Then shall the Minister speak unto the
company.
FORASMUCH as John and Jane have consented
together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before
God and this company, and thereto have given and pledged
their troth, each to the other, and have declared the same
by giving and receiving a Ring, and by joining hands; I
pronounce that they are Man and Wife, In the Name of the
Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.
The Man and the Wife kneeling, the Minister
shall add this Blessing.
GOD the Father, God the Son, God the
Holy Ghost, bless, preserve, and keep you; the Lord mercifully
with his favour look upon you, and fill you with all spiritual
benediction and grace; that ye may so live together in this
life, that in the world to come ye may have life everlasting.
Amen.
The laws respecting Matrimony, whether
by publishing the Banns in Churches, or by License, being
different in the several States, every Minister is left
to the direction of those laws, in everything that regards
the civil contract between the parties.
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